Confused between Love and Friendship..
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Last year I started loving a girl whom I have been knowing from the past 3 years. She has been a very close friend of mine. I always admired her and also told her that I like her the way she looks and etc. We have even gone very close and have been involved in pre-sex cuddling. I have made love to her also. But offlate she started saying that she has another boy friend and she is seriousl looking for a relationship with him. She started gettign irritated with me sometimes for all silly reasons. She says that she talks with the other guy everyday night but when I ask her to me she gets irritated. Last week we had a very very bad fight wherein she also asked me to go away from her. So i decided that I need to go away from her. But after 2 days she herself called me up to talk to her. But I feel that she might have done that as she was feeeling lonely. The next day again she sent me a mail (which was basically for a help) and when I didnt respond she called me and started with talks like "where I am","Am I OK". But I dont know whether she called me to just get the help done or really she wanted to speak to me. When I decide that I have to go away she comes back herself and starts everythign again. and If I go close to her she gets irritated. I dont know what to do..Just confused... :( I dont want to loose her as I love her a lot...and I dont want to stop talking to her also.
Don't be so close to her for now.
Keep the distance so that she won't get irritated. She seems confused about what she wants so let her wonder a bit about your relationship. If you are too strong with her she will back away, so be nice to her but not too much.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com