help me im in alot of pain i still love him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok well i didnt treat him good and i cheated on him once he forgave me.but he kept giving me chance after chance we were together for two yrs.but i kept treating him bad.we broke up almost three months ago.and over a month ago he came back but i was seeing someone.anyways after i dump that guy by christmas i find out that he has a girlfriend then on new yrs shes pregnant and he dont care for me anymore.then today he says hes having twins and they are getting married to leave him alone.well just over a month ago he said he wanted me now since he got a girl he dont care for me.he only been with this girl for a month.you cant tell your having twins if your only four weeks along can you?how can someone go from loving you for two yrs to not caring about you at all over a month.he dont even know this girl and already marrying her.i learn my lesson and would never do that stuff again .so how do i get him back?my parents said if you leave him alone he may come back in a few months.he had hes mom call me today and say leave him alone he dont love you he has moved on.so what do i do?i cry everyday i love him so much
My resources indicate that ultrasound cannot normally detect mutiples birth until the second trimester so it is unlikely she knew anything after a month.
Whether there are twins or not isn't important, if she is pregnant and he has made his choice to stay with her, there' not much you can do.
Life is strange and you never know what's coming down the road. Do things that make you happy (music, sports, video games, tv, movies, friends.) This will help you stop crying so much.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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