broken all my trust and love

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respected sir/madam

i am doing my graduation first year.i met a guy in the college and after two months he proposed me and i accepted his proposal.
everything was going fine for two months after that.but after that he started spending time with his best friend who is a girl.she is his friend from school years.he started neglecting me and spent time with her.
when i objected to this he said she is his best friend and can't stop talking to her.
he said he can leave me but not her.
we are having fights because of all this everyday.
and today he asked me can we break free.we can be friends and then after sometime if we want we can get back into the relation.i think he is using me.i am shattered all the way.
he has broken all my trust and confidence.
i am feeling lonely and being ignored.i love him a lot.
please help me.
thank you! Advice
You are in a very difficult position. He obviously cares for his friend more than you. Can you deal with that situation? I don't think you should have to. Try to negotiate a compromise where he will see you more often. Hopefully he will be willing to. I hope so.

Good luck! George

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An emotional affair
May have to dump him

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