Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i met this guy last year. he is incredibly cute and amazing. funny, charming, reallllllly confident. hes one of those guys that when you describe him, it sounds "to good to be true". he himself always admits to how amazing he thinks he is and how someone should be luckey to talk to him (jokingly ofcourse). but my problem is, that even since before he met me, he has been a a guy that has a lot of girls he talks to. its to the point that every girl he talks to knows that he talks to other girls, but theres so obsessive about him they dont care, they consider themselves luckey to even talk to him at all. but not me. he always tells me that im his favorite girl, and that he really likes me, and he doesnt like any of these other girls that he knows. he havent known eachother for THAT long, maybe 3 months but i am completely obsessed about him. i wake up in the mornings thinking about him and continue my day like that. my problem is that last time we talked on the phone and he was using his house phone, he was texting other girls and even reading to me what they were talking about, and he actually said that this girl is so adorable and cute. he told her "keep being this cute then we'll both be very happy" my mouth droped as he told me this. what does that mean? a little bit later he said to me " you know i luv you" and stuff.. but i dont know. i dont know if he was really serious or not but i am soo heartbroken right now. i am soooo insanely crazy about this guy. what can i do to make him feel the same about me?
i dont want to tell him not to talk to other girls, i want HIM to not want to talk to other girls cuz he wants to talk to only me. how should i act around him? how can i make him feel the same about me? please help. i hate being this deprest.
You are in love with a Don Juan/Casanova. All the girls love him and he loves all the girls... including you.
My advice is to forget him because he is not going to settle down at this point in his life. Why should he? He has everything going for him.
If you are determined to try to get him, give him the cold shoulder for just a little while and see how he reacts. Don't do this for too long because he may just drop you. If he cares about you, he should react with concern and worry that something is wrong (which it is.)
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com