i love him and he loves her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
this guy and i have been best friends for awhile and i have told him how i felt and he said im just his best friend and he sees nothing more but recently he said he loves me but it was more said like this "i wuv my best friend" now when he said this it was out of the blue and i was just like whoa..but i told myself to not think of it as anymore then him loving me as his friend because he has a girlfriend now and he loves her but its not the first time hes said it too me out of the blue like that hes done it before and he doesnt say it he texts it to me. he also is really flirty but i think that that just might be him but im not sure because he does act more mature around his other friends that are girls its just that i dont know what to do or how to feel anymore i mean am i wasting time on something that may never happen? and i want him so bad to be mine that it hurts to think he may never be anymore than my best friend...
You can either give up on him, or continue being his best friend and hoping for the best.
From what you say, it sounds like you care for him enough to wait around. Not much else you can do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com