Does he really like me or is it just pity?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
This boy who I have been in love with since middle school. we went yut in middle school but for only a month. we been friends ever since. Right now im sixteen. So yhea, I love him alot . with all my heart. in those years we have been arguing on and off. He would tell me he cant stand me and he hate me, then months later he sorry and etc. Ok now we talking again but we jus added sex to the mix. Which made things even worse. We matured alot but its still the same pattern. he tells me he loves me and etc. So i sent him a text saying i dont want to have sex withy him anymore unless we was in a relationship. Then he text me ack saying to forget about him. lose his number and etc. then i called his phone crying like a little b**** asking him wuts goig on and why he playing. Then he tells me he have no feelings for me anymore. so that ruined my world. fast forward two months later..............................he moves 1000 miles away. we call and talk to each other now. the other night when we was on the talkin. I poured out all my feelings and told him how i felt about him and told him how much i loved him. he told me he did to but i dont kno if he means it or not. he sounded unsure. but he told me months before that he had no feelings for me. Shold i believe him this time. He doesnt seem convincing.
If he is a thousand miles away, why worry about his feelings for you.
Is he coming back, are you going out there?
He has been so wishy-washy that I wouldn't believe a word he said. How could he go from not having feelings to what he claims now.
Start looking around locally and forget this loser.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com