What's his problem, what did I do wrong?Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok, me and my ex-boyfriend went out for about a month, it was the best month of my life. Like he would pay attention to me, tell me that I am beautiful, oh gosh, I love the kisses he gives me, like I feel something strong. But on the last week of that month he changed like he wasn't the guy that I was falling for anymore. The day when he broke up with me, he said, " Whenever you tell me that you love me I feel funny, like I don't feel anything with you anymore, like my grandmother died, so my feelings are totally screwed, I have this theory that if we are friends that we could get to know each other a little bit better, if it works out again then we could be together again." I told him that I was sorry about his grandmother's death and that I wanted to help him get through it. I cried then I decided to not see him for really long time, cause it hurt, and I really wanted to get my life together. While I was doing that, my friend tells me that he still won't shut-up about our break-up, he's saying so much crap about me that wasn't even true like he said that I was obssessed and stalkerish, omg I wanted to slap him. He also said that he still wants us to be friends though.It's been two weeks since we broke up.I know in my own heart that I cared about him so much.Why is he doing this to me? Is he having regrets or what?
Who knows what's bothering him, but he is a definite loser.
He shouldn't be talking about you behind your back and he shouldn't be saying mean things about you.
My advice is to give him his walking papers and turn your heart to someone new.
Good luck! George
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