should i just give up on him?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i'm 15 and female. i like this guy who is 17. he lives in a town that is about fifteen minutes away driving. we started talking through texting, i got his number from a friend, and we exchanged pictures. appropriate pictures by the way ha. and we both thought the other was cute. with some little flirting. we keep talking to each other and flirting. although i seem to anger him when i go off randomly. and then he offers me to come meet him to hang out and possibly make out. but it wasn't a date. so i got my dad to drive me to see him so we can hang out. we hung out and had a blast, with his siblings so there was no more than flirty touching going on. i was able to get a leg on him and he started to pet my leg a little. when i get home i get out of his truck and i try to go for hug but feel a little push so i stopped myself. i go into my room. i waited about twenty minutes, allowing him to go home and get settled before telling him i had a great time. and as i'm writing the text he texts me saying i think he's boring and that i should ignore him. he tells me goodbye. i reassure him that wasn't the case and we return to talking like before. then the friend i got the number from whom is taken, tells me that this guy is hitting on her and basically telling her that he is in love with her. and then i talk to him again and he tells me about another girl he likes and wants. i don't say anything but i do feel hurt and played. but i continue to talk to him and he starts insulting me, or what to me felt like an insult. he tells me i'm too skinny and he can see why i don't have a boyfriend. i have told him that i've been single for 8 months. i don't have a huge problem with my weight but many people do point out i'm rather thin. seeing as i'm about 5'7 and 105 lbs. and after all this, i apologize for the lengthy explanation, i'm wondering is he playing me? is he confused? am i wasting my time? should i just give up on him?
To me, he sounds like a complete waste of time.
If you want, go ahead and contact him some more, but I think he has given you enough clues to write him off as a loser.
Don't worry about your weight, you are still growing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com