Concern for a Friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Person
My really good friend just started going out with this guy she's known for six months. She's a senior and very mature for her age, but he's a junior and acts like a ten year old. He doesn't really treat her right either. Like, he asks her to wait on him and stuff, and she does. He's already spoiled because she spends all of her time with him, and he expects her to. My question is, do you think this relationship can go anywhere? And should I just stay out of it? Either way, one of them's going to get hurt because she's going off to the Navy. I don't want that to happen to either one of them. So what can I do to help them? And what if she gets hurt?
Their relationship can grow or it can falter. It is up to them.
You can tell your friend what your worries are, but don't be surprised if she feels differently.
Once you tell her, your job is done. Don't get yourself too involved or you will get blamed for what happens.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com