Does he still loves me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ive known this guy for years now, i can say that we're best of friends. even if we're mile away we still manage to talk through YM almost single day. on the second quarter of the year, sometime in may he asked me if im going to believe him if he says that he loves me and we should give it a try coz we're friends and its a good start. i always asked him before if he's serious and maybe he's just fooling around or playing with me but he said no. After few months or so he seems moving away, he seldom talk to me and saying he was busy working and dont even bring up about the so called relationship which we agreed upon. What i was thinking is that he might have think that i never trust him coz i always say that he might have some girls he flirting with and also he told to our mutual friend that my problem, i always think that he's a womanizer and he was saying that he's not. He also mentioned to me that he wants he's planning to go here and stay for good where i am now, but that was way back august.But since then he never did mentioned to me again and when i ask him he is just saying that he's working. He said to me before that he wanted to treat the same way he treats me as we are as friends and just to let you know, he.s never been into relationship. He always brings up my ex in our conversation and he also asked me if i still remember his bday w/c is in dec 30th. I remember one time he told me that he's not like my ex who cheat on me and he will never cheat with a girl. And I wanna ask him if what we've agreed before is still existing coz i dont want to hope for nothing. Im hurting that he's treating me this way. Does it mean that he doesnt have feelings to me anymore. Why should i do. I do love him Advice
He is not serious about you. Talk to him and discuss your relationship in depth to find out how he feels about you. Since you talk almost everyday you have a good opportunity to do this.

Let him know how you feel about him. Maybe he needs a reminder.

Plan a visit to see each other. This will let you talk.

Keep a smile on your face.

Good luck! George

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