Its been a while and i still want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
We dated for about a month and a week, and i was basically living in heaven with her. To be quiet honest i dont think ive ever liked or actually loved someone as much as i loved her. One day out of no where her friend tells me taht she is breaking up with me only to find out the reason after three months. The reason was that i could not control my temper at the time, and the smallest things would just get me absolutely mad. i then figured out the reason behind me being mad all the time and have been working on it for a long time and it has improved. but the downside to all taht is that she does not talk to me at all... she cutt off every means of communication with me, if i email her just to say hi, she wont reply back. we did talk and became friends for a short period but only for a friend of hers to come to disrespect me and annoy me, so she would do the whole thing of not talkin me again. I did even move to another city to try to get over her and just forget about her but it doesnt seem to work.... ive tried all the conventional ways and she still wont talk to me or anything, and i am kinda desperate now... i want her back no matter what happens, and wont settle for less... i dont know what to do... i do need help...
She broke up with you because you lost your temper too much. Then she wouldn't talk to you. Finally she started talking to you again but you were annoyed by a friend of hers so she stopped talking to you.
Sounds to me that you need more work on your temper before trying to get her back. Seek out some counselling and hope you can get assistance there.
You probably learned your behavior from your mom or dad, so look at how they behave as far as anger goes and that may clue you in.
Good luck! George
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