i dont know whats going on.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
well my name is andrea im 15 and only had one boyfriend before. it didnt last too long because i found out how guys really are pigs! he was my first and only kiss.
so theres this guy and we used to hang out everyday he broke up with his girlfriend of quite a few monthes and i have a feeling he likes me. i have this problem that as soon as i start really liking a guy and they like my,i run away. hes been wanting me to tell him how i feel and i called him one day and tried telling him but it wouldnt come out...so i texted him off my friends phone and told him that i liked him a lot but lately its been slipping away because we dont hang out as much. and it was open for him to finally tell me how he felt and he didnt he only said "oh", and "oh ok" and when i told him to say something so i dont sound completely retarded he said he didnt know what to say so i got upset and told him not to say anything then and he said ok then which got me more mad.we had this big ordeal about eachothers tops, bcause i moved him down on mine and he moved me down but put my best friend before me. and i fliped on him for it and now we arent talking at all. i really need help. i resently told him that we need to talk and he hasnt gotten back to me yet. im great at giving other people advise but im kinda toungue tied with this one. im really confused.
He sounds scared. Now that you told him you like him he gets quiet and won't say anything.
Give it one more try. This time do it in person. Tell him that you like him and want to know how he feels. Just be direct with him. But gentle.
If he is still confused then my advice is to dump him because he is too much work when romance is supposed to be fun.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com