He doesn't contact me
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have met this guy before 8 months at my university. We come from the same country so we were introduced by a friend.I asked him if he knows girls studying there from our country and he said he knows some. Anyway i gave him my number and he gave me his. He rang me after 2 days( we were both at uni at the time) and told me he is at the cafe with one of his mates and that i could join them if i am free. I went and he told me he lives with his mum and that i can go to visit her and get to know her.He also told me to ring him anytime i need his help. I wasn't interested with him at the time and didn't continue or try to get closer to him. I feel i want to be with him and know him well and he might be the right man for marriage for me. But i met one of his friends at uni i asked her about him and she told me he is now working and decided not to continue with his studies this year.I wanted to talk yo him so I rang him but i did not want to appear very interested so i just i asked him what he is doing now and then asked if he could help me find a flat for my brother who is living abroad because i don't know anybody in that town eventhough this is true i just wanted to get closer to him. He told me he has friends in that other town and he will ask them and ring me. I didn't hear from him and after 11 days i texted him ( he lives with his mum so i thought he might not find it easy to talk if she is there thats why i texted) and asked about his work and also asked him if he has any good news for me and that if he gets time he can ring me. Its been 2 days now and i haven't heard from him.What should i do. I really like him. Please help.
You have taken enough steps toward him so he knows you like him.
Since he is not calling back, I think he is not interested in you. Sorry.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com