I need a proper ending...?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my ex broke up around 10 days ago, her feelings have changed, and she kept making all these empty promises. I noticed and we talked about that, then she reckons its a good idea that we break up, because we are heading towards different lives next year.
At first I'm ok about it, because I have talked to my mates and they helped cheering me up. But these two days have been a lil rough, it's probably because we used to spend time together, and the fact that we're not as close as we once were. Like we used to be excited to talk to each other (even before we started dating), these days she's always making the same excuses (for ex, she's tired, etc). I guess I just miss her, care about her a lot and still like her (don't want to say i love her anymore)
And the biggest problem is probably how we ended it, we ended it online. The last time we met in person, it was amazing. We spent the day together. She told me she loved me a lot and she insisted for me to stay as long as possible. That was 4 days before we broke up. That's why i'm so confused, she said she loved me a few days ago, then she changed so rapidly. I want to talk to her in person, but she keeps making excuses and say it's properly not a good idea.
All i want is a proper goodbye in person, so i can give her the stuff back. It's hard, I hope i can get over it. And i just want my best mate back to be honest. I'm leaving in the weekend, I really hope that absense makes the heart grow fonder.
Tell her again that you want a proper in person good bye so you can give her back her stuff and talk a little.
Ask her enough and she will probably give in.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com