i need a miracle
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
george, i wrote you the question of "boys suckkkkkk"and im gonna try to follow your advice on that. but what im worried about is that what if it doesnt work? i know he is a veryyyy experienced person and a biggggg time womanizer. he always told me that he would never touch or pressure a girl into doing something she doesnt want to do. but i feel like if i dont, ill lose him. and i would rather die then lose him. i get calls, texts, and emails and stuff saying "oh ur really lucky to have him in your life and u must be special if hes interseted in you" and stuff like that. he tells me himself that he does talk to other girls sometimes but hes interested in only me. i dont know how to take that. should i be happy or sad? he's not a player or anything but he's really picky. he is basically the guy that everyyyy girl wants and apparently, i should be lucky to have him talking to me at all. he doesnt make me feel special sometimes, like we talk about how hes the shit and the best and a girl can never do better then him. i feel like hes trying to talk himself up so i can like him more, but i dunno. what do u think hes trying to say? should i do wat he wants, even though it will be my first time(and i promised my self i wouldnt until im ready, but i feel like im sooo close to just give in just to keep him). i feel like im so desperate to try to make him my boy friend that i will do anything and everything i can to make sure that happens. i can not let go of him or lose him, i really feel like ill die. sumtimes he tells me stories of how these random girls r into him nd hes like "ya w/e." and i try to tell him stuff like that to so he'll be like im a hard girl to get and he might want me even more.how should i act around him so he'll be like "wow, i wnt this girl to be mine, and only mine".
You are not in a very good situation. You are hooked on this guy big time and ready to do whatever he wants in a desperate hope to keep him.
As you said, he seems to be perfect and can get any girl he wants... at least that's what he is saying.
To keep him be yourself and don't act any different. It will just turn him off if you do.
The sort of good news is that you can keep him (for a while) if you give him what he wants, but the bad news is that he will probably leave you once you do and you will very, very miserable.
He seems like the "love 'em and leave 'em" type of guy to me. Keep this in mind no matter what you do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com