Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I been dating this one girl for 3 years.. we known each other for 5 years etc.. Every since we knew each other and went out, we been long distance. I do tried to visit her once a month when she was still in state, but after she moved out of state, I visited her 3-4 times a year. we broke up more than a months ago, she called it off on me, and said that she feel that me and her aren't going to work out in the future and she doesn't want to drag the me down (she doesn't want to get married) and she feels that her the chemistry between us had fade away. I still love her, and somehow i still feel that she love me. currently, we both are on no contact period. there were times during the break up that she would called me and just be silence on the phone. and wouldn't say a word. I already agreed with her to be friend with her, and so forward. I thought it will bring me closer to her, and try to change things while being her friend, but without me talking to her, or contacting her, then I don't see how is that possible. I give her time as she asked for, but somehow,I feel that if I give her too much time, then sooner or later there be nothing left between me and her. what should I do?
My advice is to forget this woman.
You only see her 3-4 times a year and she is not committed to the relationship. Why not set her free and find yourself someone new. She doesn't want to get married so what's the point of continuing this bad experience.
Look around and you will find some very attractive women waiting for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com