were we ever together and is it time to move on?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So i heard from my friend that this guy liked me, and i always kinda had a thing for him as well. so my friend put my number in his phone, and he texted me that night and we started talking more and more. He would phone me every night, and text me throughout the day, and tease me here and there. Our conversations are lots of sexual teasing jokes, and all. So we went to a party, and hooked up.. but we weren't offical. But he would continue contacting me, and wanting to see me lots. The problem was that he never asked me out, nor showed any PDA at school. So I felt a bit used cause he only wanted to make out and all.. and so i told him how i felt. He sounded all upset.. and tried calling me around 4 am but i wasn't able to pick up. So the next day, i was feeling real bugged about it, and asked him whats wrong. He ended up saying, "well i just need some time to think about us, maybe we're moving too fast.." and "how bout we take it easy for a bit, you're a great girl but I'm not sure what i want."
Sounds like you took the right steps with him. He was using you and he needed to be brought up short.
Let him think it over and see what happens. My sense is that you would be better off without him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com