Have I lost her?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There´s a girl I like(I´m 18) called Paula(she´s 15/16), she used talk & flirt with me alot(even though she´s got a bf, but back then they were fighting alot) but then she started ignoring me and flirting with this other guy. Paula even told a gf of hers that she´d go out with me when she broke up with her bf.
The jealousy really got 2 me, it broke my heart(I´ve never felt that way about a girl).So I did the same, me & a friend made out we were together and Paula was furious (I could tell by her face). The girl pretending 2 be my gf even asked paula why she was looking at her like that, and she went a bit over the top.
The trouble is that I´m still inlove with Paula and I don´t know what 2 do, and her and her bf are still 2gether.
Please help!! (Sorry for being a pain, but I really am inlove with paula).
I know I´ve asked alot recently from you guys & I´m sorry, If you could just help me with this I would be really grateful.
Thanks ever so much.
I would not recommend playing games by pretending to have a girl friend. This will only confuse things and possibly create tensions.
Why not come clean with her and tell her that you were trying to make her jealous because you like her a lot and wanted her to take more of an interest in you. She may be mad when you tell her, but if you apologize enough then she is more likely to feel complimented.
Be sure to flirt with her some times.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com