She means the world to me and I need her back.Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
About a month ago I met the one grl who I actually feel is the one for me we met working @ the same place and it was jus me and five grls including her but she was the quiet one who caught my eye and we talked for about a wk and decided to "see" each other we both never moved this fast but we both knew we liked each other very much and we dated for about a month. That was when everything fell apart i had lost my job and totaled my car on the week and i told her that i wanted to see her to jus get rid of all the stress going on so we went to a party that night and she was dancing with another guy and I'm not the jealous type but she was doing it right in my face so I went outside to cool off and she comes out after me and tells me that she doesn't know about us being together anymore so everything came down on me and we talked and decided to jus be friends cause she wanted some space she also said that i needed to mature and that i was spending to much time with her and not focusing on myself and i told her that i understood and I wanted to get my life back on track and I have but now that I'm ready to start things over she tells me she thinks we should jus be friends and I hope she still likes me cause either together or not I'll always love her and I need her in my life how do i bring her back into my arms cause she makes me better person she has helped me quit smoking, has been there for me and i don't want to lose her. She IS my EVERYTHING and without her it seems like I can't breathe can't sleep can't live please help me get her back! :)
The first thing to do is to be what she wants "a friend." Concentrate on that and she will gradually be drawn back to you. Be honest, affectionate, and respectful with her.
Don't get your hopes up too high--this is not going to be an overnight change in your relationship. Take it slow and don't be clingy or deperate.
Something attracted you two together and it will hopefully come into play again after being friends for a while.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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