My own Mr. Big.. NO idea what to do!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I literally have been dealing with my own mister big since may 2007, and it's driving me nuts. It's either black and white with him.
Our relationship started out more as a fling, and proceeded to become more serious, and the second we started becoming really close, he stopped talking to me around october 2007. We saw eachother out on the town one nite a few weeks later, and we started seeing eachother again. Things started getting busy again after christmas, and we quit spending so much time together, and then he called me the evening of valentines day 2008, well, the 13th, and I went to see him. Things were great, and then he told me how he is interested in this girl but she doesn't care about him and he doesn't know what to do... I left. They dated until the end of April. Of course, we started seeing eachother again when they ended things, and we spent more time together this summer, and we got in an argument early August.
I have not spoken with him since, I think about him everyday. I KNOW that we are crazy for eachother, but I don't know what his logic is and how to be patient with this. I want to talk to him, but I don't know what to say after not talking to him for months.
Do I write him a letter? Do I visit him? Do I call him? I am totally clueless and I don't want to make the wrong move.
Ask him out for dinner and, based on previous experience, you and he will be together again before you know it.
This time take a close look at your relationship and see where the the faults lie and try to avoid them. Otherwise you will simply replay the same problems you encountered before.
Since you think about him every day, make this a priority.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com