Shes Scared

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My girlfriend and I have been together 14 months and we are very close.. we kiss all the time and.she gets really into it.. she is a very religious person and is scared of going further because she is afraid people will be disappointed in her. she said it wouldnt be the end of the world if we went to the next level but she wouldnt neccissarily be proud of it.. she says that she wants to go further but she says she thinks shell feel guilty... what can i do to help her loosen up without being the bad guy? Advice
Tell her that what you do in privacy is none of anybody else's business and she shouldn't worry about them finding out.

Her feelings of guilt will slowly melt away and she will be happy.

As you said, you don't want to push her so take it slow.

Good luck! George

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