should I stay with him/ date my best (guy)friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi, my name is heather and I am 16 years old.I have been going out with my bf for almost two years.Half of the time I want to break up with him, but the other half I want to marry him when we get older.He is 17. We have gone as far as having sex for a few months now. I know what half of the people reading this are thinking "she's too young to have sex...." and b4 I did I thought I was too, but that as changed every thing. But back to the question, he says he loves me all of the time and I believe him. And I love him too. but I just cant seem to get over this crush I have had on my best guy friend for months. ANd this friend just happens to be my bf's best friend. I have known him longer than my bf but.. I know that because Him and my bf are best friends he would never date me. I want to completly for get about it and just think about my bf but I don't know if I can. what should I do. HELP!!!
You have a good thing going with your boyfriend.
There is always a temptation to look for something better but it rarely works out for the best. Especially in this case you are crushing over your bf's best friend. This is a major no-no. It is typical because you are near both of them and they are probably similar to each other.
Try to take your mind off of him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com