Scared to fall
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am a recently divorced middle age man and got into a serious relationship before my divorce was final. This relationship did not turn out at all and left me even more heart broken. Now I am in the situation of being alone all the time and wondering what i did wrong to deserve my ex wife leaving me for another guy and my ex gf leaving me for her ex husband where did i go wrong. I now look at most all women as users and treat them with a cold heart. How do i change these feelings because now everytime i date someone i dont give them the upmost "respect" they deserve Now i just look at women as mostly a piece of meat and not how they should be treated
Go see a counsellor. You need help with understanding your feelings towards women and a quick answer over the internet is not going to help much.
Operating with a "cold heart" is going to get you nowhere. You are not middle aged if you are age 21-30 which is what you checked off. That age is plenty young enough to change yourself.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com