I'm so worried...
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
So this girl that I'm madly in love with moved about 50 miles away from where we used to live. (We lived roughly a block away from each other.) Anyways, we would always hang out, we were always happy, whether we were having a blast or sitting around bored. We never got together, I always said that I love her though, and she never really said anything other then she loves me too. Since she moved, she got with the WORST guy possible, he's a perverted, dispicable freak. And she's made terrible friends, ranging from people who are suicidal to people who get high every night and haven't a care in the world. She has been making bad decisions and changing for the worst. She has been very secretive from her family and I, and she explodes when we try to see what she's up to. I love her so much, and I haven't talked to her for 6 days. It is the most painful thing I've ever done, but everyone keeps advising me to not talk to her and in turn she will come to me and tell me everything. She doesn't seem to be doing that, she just goes along making the wrong decisions and I'm worried that she is going to make a drastically bad decision that will affect her life in a huge way. I hate seeing her like this, please let me know if there is ANY way to get some things resolved.
You are very kind to care for your friend so much.
But you can't live her life for her and she seems to be ignoring good advice. Maybe if you lived closer to her you might be able to help her.
If you like, continue to listen to her and give her support. You may be the only good thing in her life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com