What can i do to get her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my gf haad been together 6 months. The 6 months were great. I have always had some jealousy issues bcuz of my ex's who cheated on me. I tried really hard not to be jealous with my gf bcuz i know she loved me. Then out of nowhere she lied to me and told me she was going with her coworker somewhere. I later found out that she had been with one of her friends who is a guy because he needed someone to talk to. I had questioned her about him once before but she assured me that she didnt like him and they were friends. Finally she admitted to me that she did go with him but only so he could have someone to talk to. She said she wouldnt lie to me anymore. She continued to talk to her friend but it became more frequent and only when i wasnt around. She said it was because he was afraid of me. Well to end the story we had an argument and she ended up breaking up with me and was crying with her family all day. i tried so hard to get ahold of her and when i did she asked me where i was and said she would come to me so we could talk. She never showed up and i found out she was at a bday party at a nightclub. Now she wont talk to me and i just want to correct my jealousy issues and be with her. Its so hard bcuz i have gotten so close with her two beautiful daughters and she has gotten very close with my daughter as well. I just want her back so that i can have a chance to make things right. What can i do?
Jealousy sucks and trust is the answer.
Tell her to see her friend as much as she wants and that you trust her... and mean it. It is the only way out except to leave her.
Once she starts seeing him it is time to start compromising a little if she really overdoes it.
If you can really feel the trust you will be very, very happy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com