Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I would really appreciate if you could help me.I am with a great boy.He is going through some very difficult times.I want to be there for him,but he just won't let me.I was thinking of dumping him because I still wanted my ex,but from the moment he told me what he is going through I changed my mind.I want to help him cope.Like I already said,he just won't let me.Lately he is also being quite paranoid and we fight a lot.I try to be nice with him but we keep fighting.He thinks I am cheating on him,he gets angry for silly things.How can I help him?I won't let him down now that he needs me but he is starting to letting me down...
Tell him he is starting to drag you down and that you can't be strong and help him if he keeps doing that.
Discuss with him, gently, the specific problems with fights, jealousy, and paraanoia that he is causing.
Say that you don't know what to do if things keep going the way they do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com