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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Please help me!

I met this guy and he has been everything i ask for and we had a wonderful relationship together and potential for something really great. We met 4 months ago and he had just very recently gone away for 18 months with the military. The first 6 months will be training and then after he will be overseas. The 6 month period we will still talk and keep in touch occasionally. Eventhough he has told me that we will be together when he comes home, he felt the best thing to do is for me not to wait for him because he feels it is unfair to ask me to wait all that time when we havent been together that long.

My question is i really want to be with this guy and it has only been 4 months that we have been together. I am worried about feelings fading during these 18 months being the history is just not there.

What do you think is the best way to keep him interested and to make sure he's wanting to come back to me?

Thank you,
Michele Advice
Email and call as much as you can. Send surprise packages with home baked cookies and brownies. Have a count down for how long he has before he returns.

Tell him you want to wait for him and remind him often.

Be sure you belief in all of this.

Good luck! George

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