I am so confused.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
This is hard to talk about, so please understand that its hard to understand also...I hope its not to confusing.
Okay so this is very strange for me...
I have a best friend, lets call her...'Lacey'...
Okay so Lacey and I would always...Joke like pop eachothers butt, grab eachothers boob, and stuff like that, chain eachother up, call eachother lover.
But then it got a bit...Wierd...
Like I was giving her a make over, and had to get on top of her. (I am short.) And we both turned red and didn't speak.
I told her about how I got a hickie and she dared me to give her a hickie, but I never did...I don't know how to explain it. We lie in the same bed and I play with her hair.
And we we're writing after we couldn't talk anymore...
And her is one wierd convo.
First thing, I was telling her how I touched a furry animal and my eyes swelled up.
'Oh dear. Your poor face. Dont touch things that you are alergic too! Idiot! I still love you even if you are a danger to yourself. haha.'
Her: Haha you were hit on by girls! lol. that's funny. they sensed your true sexuatlity.
Me: Oooor it was because I was wearing a rainbow shirt? For the last time I AM NOT GAY!!! bisexual maybe, but not gay...Haha just kidding. (or am I?) I am! Haha.
Her: You are too gay. I'm Bisexual. jk jk. you KNOW i am just kidding.
I think we might be gay for each other. lol.
Me: I am NOT gay, but YOU are bisexual. lol.
We probably are gay for eachother, but in denial...Haha!
Her: Prolly. Denial is bilss tho.
Sorry its long but tell me, what do you think, does she have feelings for me? Do I(I know you can't answer the do I one.)
Thank you very much.
This sounds like teasing and joking around the edges of something "dangerous."
Don't worry about it unless you start to think about it a lot and it bothers you. Lots of teenagers go through stages where sexuality can become mixed up somehow. If you aren't sure about how your friend feels just drop the subject if she brings it up again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com