I'm Afraid To Ask Her Out.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I'm 14...there's a girl that i really like who rides my bus and my friend asked her out for me last year and she said no. I started liking her again and I'm afraid that if I try and get to know her she'll think I'm like a stalker or something. Last year she didn't know me at all and I am pretty sure that she doesn't this year either. She is a grade below me by the way , and I think if i try and get to know her she may say yes but I don't know how I can spark conversation because she doesn't know me well at all. Please help! Thank You.
Standard advice is that you shouldn't send a friend to do what you should do yourself. So do your own talking from now on.
Start off slow with her. Get off the bus before her and hang out when she gets out smile and say "Hi." Do this a few times and then when she is used to it, then do more. Then say "Hi" plus her name. Always smile at her. In fact if you smile at everyone they will feel better and so will you.
Pretty soon you will know her and you can ask her out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com