wait or move on?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
theres this girl i liked for so long. we became pretti good freinds, tho she lives far. we sometimes hang out around mahatan n othr places n have fun. many times i wanted 2 tell her i like her but didnt til finally i did 1 day, but she didnt react or had a face expression, she was jus quiet. 3 days later we tlk a lil bout it via online. she told me she doesnt think it would wrk out, tht she doesnt want to hurt me or lose my freindship. but never told me if she likes me or not, tho i feel she doesnt. i asked if there was a chance but she said i dont know, n i asked her 2 let me know once she figures it out.
been a week n nothin, i dont wat i should do now. i realli like this girl. b4 her i given up on relationships, n some how she made me have hope on them. im not sure what i should do now.....any advice? plz n thnx u
The biggest problem is the distance. My guess is that she doesn't want to commit to a relationship with you because of that distance.
Maybe you could move close to her so that she knows you will be near to her.
If this is not possible, send her flowers and poems to let her know how much you care. Plan some some special events like concerts or whatever.
If you have the money, ask her to go on a long weekend trip not too far away
like a motel where you could have meals together and lounge around and swim.
Start saving money to treat her with and she will probably grow to like you more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com