About to break up with another guy in mind
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 21 and me and my boyfriend are constantly fighting and the relationship is obviously going down in flames. Unfortunatly we just so happen to work at the same place. What would be the best way to break up with him and what would be the best way to keep office talk down? Unrelated to the problems that me and my boyfriend are having... there is this guy in one of my classes that I have a big crush on. He sits a little bit in front of me so there is no real way to make any eye contact or flirt with him during class, but I do catch the occasional glance my way. After class there is a crowd of people so I have never gotten the chance to talk to him. What would be the best way to catch his attention and hopefully get him to approach me? Or what would be some good ways to approach him? I know it is a lot to consider, so I thank you for your time. Have a great day!
Regarding your first question, you should gently let him know that your relationship is no longer satisfying to you. Tell some friends at work that you broke up with him and the word will get around, it will be a topic of conversation for a day and then it will be over. If you try to hide it, it will slip out and people will be gossiping about it.
As far as the guy in your class. Take the bull by the horns and ask him for his phone number, email, chat, whatever. If you wait around, someone else will grab him and you will be out in the cold. Be brave.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com