what step should I take
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. He broke up with his ex girlfriend 3 months ago but they still live together. They sleep in the same room and bed. They have kids together. We spend time together,do a lot of things together and he makes me happy. I'm fond of him I really do love him and I know he loves me cause his actions shows me that and he tells me sometimes but I always tell him first.I'm sad at the end of the day cause he has to go home and I know his ex is there as well as their kids.We are very intimated with one another but at times I feel as though he's going to take her back even though we're happy with one another. I think shes a good woman so what shall I do?
My advice is to call up his ex and ask her what is going on. This could be unpleasant but you need to verify what he is saying.
He will probably be upset that you called his ex but since he is still living with her and sleeping in the same bed and has two kids, you have to wonder if he is telling you the whole truth.
If he is telling the truth, then you will have less worry about him going back to her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com