I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I know it must be strange hearing this from a person as young as myself, but I'm very sure I'm in love with my best friend. I think about her constantly, not in a sexual or perverted sense either, I just think of how incredibly, euphorically happy I am when im with her. But, sadly, I'm a complete ametuer when it comes to flirting or opening up to a person, it's really ridiculous. I can't seem to get any advice from my friends or family, because they've never been in this situation, my friends are all immature and my parents and older siblings seem to think I'm in a lustful relationship with her. I have no idea how to flirt with her enough to help me open up without coming on too strong. help? :)
First off, sexual feelings are perfectly natural and should not be ignored.
Everyone starts off not knowing how to flirt or open up to a person. What everyone does is to practice until it becomes part of you. The first step in flirting is simply saying hi to her when you see her. But don't be half-hearted about it. Put on your best smile, look her in the eyes, and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name. Hopefully this will lead to conversations and getting to know each other. As you get closer you can compliment her on her hair, clothes, smile, etc.
Start doing this soon or someone else may get her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com