i want more than just frends!Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i had an ex hu i broke up with coz we didnt want to keep a long distance relationship. then i started to chat to sum boi hu is 3 yrs olda dan me. at first i was curious n asked him y he would be intrested in me becoz he was oldah 3 yrs n he said coz he enjoyed chatting to me and we spoke for hours about like nothin. we started off as frends n we was supposed to meet. but i couldnt meet him dah day so we left it. he saw my pictures on bebo and facebook n i saw his pics he is good looking. hes gives me compliments from time to time on my looks and personality. but now i want to be more than frends and i dont noe what to do n im kind of a little bit scared of makin the first move and scaring him off. please if you could give me on tips on what to say without him knowing i really like. because i want to make sure he likes me. and i need to know if hes got a girlfreind. i've asked him a lot of times and he always said no. guess im a little isecure.
sorry its a bit long but thank you
He is complimenting you and also says he has no girlfriends.
You should trust him. That is one of the most important parts of having a good relationship.
Take the bull by the horns and tell him you are "developing feelings" for him and see what he says. If he says he feels the same way then you will be happy and you can be more than friends. If he doesn't answer positively, don't give up because he may just be shy and needs time to think it over. Then you would wait another week or so and say it again to him. After he has had time to think it over, he will give you a thoughtful answer.
Good luck! George
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