I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND.HOW DO I GET HER BACK AFTER CHEATING ON HER 3 TIMES?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I AM 30 YRS OLD,I LIVE IN FLORIDA.I HAVE BEEN MARRIED,FILING FOR DIVORCE.I HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER,FROM THE MARRIAGE.I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL THAT I MET ONLINE FOR 8 MONTHS.WE LIVED TOGETHER.SHE TELLS ME SHE LOVES ME ALOT AND I LOVER HER TOO.SHE'S NOT HAPPY THAT I GO TO SEE MY DAUGHTER AT MY EX-WIFES HOUSE,BECAUSE I CHEATED ON HER WIT MY EX-WIFE 3 TIMES.AFTER THE THIRD TIME SHE BROKE UP WITH ME.SHES FORGIVEN ME THE PAST TIMES,BUT SHE SAID THAT'S IT.I FEEL LIKE I LEARNED MY LESSON,AND ALL I WANT IS TO BE BACK WITH MY GIRLFRIEND.I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I TOLD HER THAT I'M EXPEDITING MY DIVORCE PAPERS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.I TOLD HER THAT THE ONLY WOMAN THAT MEANS ALOT IN MY LIFE IS HER,BECAUSE I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER FOR HOW SHE IS AND SHE TREATED ME GOOD.HOW CAN I CONVINCE HER THAT I HAD ENOUGH AND THAT I TRULY LOVE HER AND I WANT HER IN MY LIFE,AND I'M WILLING TO CHANGE FOR GOOD,NO MORE CHEATING?
You should continue to give her words that tell her you are sorry, and that you love her. But the real proof is for you to stop cheating. Tell her you will not see her for a month and be faithful during this time. It will be tough for you but that's how to prove it.
Good luck! George
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