Best friend or boyfriend?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay my best friend is a guy and this year things have really been different, we’re still best friends and all but now we’re doing stuff like boyfriend and girlfriend, we’re making out, touching each other stuff like that. He’s not being mean to me any more well not like he use to use to he would call me the ugliest girl in the world and joke about stuff like that, now he apologizes for everything he’s super sweet most of the time until everyone asks if we’re dating he just kinda blushes and says with her no, now she’s my best friend. He’s not acting the same around me any more. I really wanna know if he likes me as a gf because I know he likes grabbing my bobs an d crotch and that’s okay with me because I kinda like it. Last year he did stuff like this but he never changed around me ad every time he would grab something he would say I was just trying to prove a point or I didn’t use my hands so it doesn’t count so I’ll do it again (even though he used his hands I saw him) I really don’t know what to think. People are starting to notice that we’re sitting extra close an dnot being our normal self’s. I’m not sure what I should do he won’t tell me who he likes he’ll say someone and then say no I was just kidding. Right now we’re keeping everything a secret and I really wanna know if he likes me or whats going on but something feels different.
Since he is touching you in intimate places, that makes him a boyfriend.
Tell him that he must be honest with people and admit that you are his girlfriend. Tell him if he won't do that then he can't touch you. You deserve better than what you are getting from him.
Be gentle when you tell him this... explain that you feel used and he needs to help you get out from under this feeling.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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