Best friend or boyfriend?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay my best friend is a guy and this year things have really been different, were still best friends and all but now were doing stuff like boyfriend and girlfriend, were making out, touching each other stuff like that. Hes not being mean to me any more well not like he use to use to he would call me the ugliest girl in the world and joke about stuff like that, now he apologizes for everything hes super sweet most of the time until everyone asks if were dating he just kinda blushes and says with her no, now shes my best friend. Hes not acting the same around me any more. I really wanna know if he likes me as a gf because I know he likes grabbing my bobs an d crotch and thats okay with me because I kinda like it. Last year he did stuff like this but he never changed around me ad every time he would grab something he would say I was just trying to prove a point or I didnt use my hands so it doesnt count so Ill do it again (even though he used his hands I saw him) I really dont know what to think. People are starting to notice that were sitting extra close an dnot being our normal selfs. Im not sure what I should do he wont tell me who he likes hell say someone and then say no I was just kidding. Right now were keeping everything a secret and I really wanna know if he likes me or whats going on but something feels different. Advice
Since he is touching you in intimate places, that makes him a boyfriend.

Tell him that he must be honest with people and admit that you are his girlfriend. Tell him if he won't do that then he can't touch you. You deserve better than what you are getting from him.

Be gentle when you tell him this... explain that you feel used and he needs to help you get out from under this feeling.

Good luck! George

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