I miss her and need her back in my life
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my x left me about two month now. . .i was with her for twenty one months i love her to death and she did as well but at time went on we started having fights and i really didnt like it too much and i thought that a way to fix it was not to be around each other as much dont know if i was right or wrong but whatever and i started to fall in love with her and she fell in love with me after some time i bought her a necklace with a heart on it and gave it to her and said this is my heart i want you to have it always and forever and till this day she still has it den as time wen on we got a the topic on marriage i dont know how but we wanted to get married to one another i finally relized i did i went out and bought her an ingagement ring one night i looked her in the eyes and proposed to her she had the biggest smile on her face that i ever seen the next day she went looking for her dress the girls she wanted and picked them all and everything as months went by of her being my fiance i decided to make the wedding happen i planned for our 2 year anniversary and she never had a clue about it i told her after she left me and she cryed but a week after we broke up she was with some else i went to see her and i told her i love her and she bit her bottom lip the look on her face like she wanted to tell me i asked her if she did love me and told me she couldnt tell me i tried so much to get her back in my life i written songs letter and dedicated songs to her purchased flowers i made slides of our pictures with song i just want to know what else i can try to see if she returned back in to my life
Whenever one partner unexpectedly breaks off a long-term relationsip, I wonder whether that person is ashamed of having made a mistake... like an affair. Then they are too ashamed to confess.
Have a talk with her and tell her that if that's what happened you forgive her and still want her back. (Assuming, of course, that's how you feel.)
Another possibility is that the thought of marriage began to weigh on her mind and she got cold feet. Ask her about that too.
See if she will go out to a fancy restaurant with you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com