Love or not
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hello, last time I wrote to you about "OMG...URGENT!!!".
The thing is you don't seem to understand. I've always thought that I like him but now it doesn't seem this way because if I did just like him then why would I still keep thinking about him after 8 months since we broke up. That's why I wrote to you to know whether this is love or not. You can read the "OMG...URGENT!!!" post again. The thoughts of him just put a smile on my face. We talked about the whole getting back together again situaton and he goes to me he still likes me and still has feelings for me and he might ask me out again but since we never saw each other after that so I don't know. Because it was just before summer holidays when we talked about it and something might happen when we go back to college. But all I need to know is whether I am in love or not? :|
I doubt if I could have made it clearer. I said:
"You definitely still love him... perhaps mixed with some obsession"
Your previous post didn't mention the discussion you had with him before summer holidays and puts a twist on the situation.
Something might happen when you go back to college. Give it two months into the semester (or term); if he hasn't made some commitment then re-read my advice from yesterday and see how you feel.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com