8 months still not close
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ok so iv been going out with my gf for about 8 months and my friends say we r just really good friends and we cant have a convo for more than 3 minnutes, and we pretty much agree with what they r saying, i just wanna kno how to get closer with her i mean we like hug after skool to say good bye and like hold hands and stuf like that but i really wanna like value all the time i spend with her i kno this went a little long and it prob dosent make sense,
so heres the questons i would like answered
1. how do i value all the time i spend with her
2. how can i do that in school with out getting in trouble (some strict teachers)
this is off subject but i thougt throw it in any way, ok so theres some people in the grade younger than me and they have a cruch on her and one of them asked her out when i was gone i kno she said no i trust her with that but they get really anoying and they wont shut up i wanna kno how to make them go be quiet
ok that was longer than i intended srry i hope u can help!!! thnx !!!
The best way to value your time with her is to learn to talk about feelings. Practice doing this whenever you get a chance. Remember to talk about good and bad feelings and make sure you listen to her very closely and don't drop the discussion until you are finished with it.
These talks will make both of you feel closer to each other and also help you deal with day-to-day problems.
As far as what you do at school, I can't be of much help. Try to follow the rules that your school has. Otherwise you will be nervous and that will reduce the pleasure. Going to the movies is a good solution to having time together. Taking a walk or bowling is good too.
As far as the guys in the younger grade, a good policy is for neither of you to talk with them. Ignore them and they will tire of their games.
Hope some of this helps! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com