very confused and i want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok...my ex and I fell in love while we were at school together and when school got out she went back home and so did I. We were an hour away from eachother and with gas prices bein the way they are now i couldnt see her as often as i wanted. i work at a club/bar on thursdays and saturdays back where we go to school (which is 30 minutes away from where i live and 30 minutes from where she lives) and we would see eachother at least twice a week when i would work and when she would go out....every so often i would go see her at her hometown and everything was goin good up until a month after school got out....she now starts tellin me that people say we dont look like a couple and i dont show the "little things" anymore...i find out this guy (i'll call him joe)has been goin to see her and has been tellin her that me and her dont look like were even dating...she breaks up with me on a wednesday and tells me she is out of love with me...the very next day she goes to the bar and sees me where she tells me she misses me, loves me and decides to kiss me haha...so im kind of excited because i believe we might get back together...well that saturday she gets asked out on a date by joe...they kiss and he started braggin to his friends about it and I find out...then when i tell her about bein done with her she cries and begs me not to leave....so i stick around and hang out with her and take her out and express to her how much i love her and how she'll never have to worry about losing me....she tells me she can see her self falling back in love with me and then i find out shes goin out on dates and kissing this guy again and again...well she says shes goin to give him a chance and started datin him a month or so after we broke up (and has been datin him for a month and a half)....her best friend tells me they always argue and he gets pissed whenever she LOOKs at another guy especially if its me at the bar....haha i even found out my ex accidently called him by my name.....i want know if i can get her back and/or if it's worth tryin to get her back....i think about her everyday and its drivin me crazy..i would appreciate any help!
My answer is to let here go and hope she comes back in the near future.
She is obviously attached to "Joe" and there is not much you can do about that.
Start flirting with or dating other women and she may come running back.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com