What do I do next?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm pretty sure this guy likes me, I just need some reassurance and some help on what to do next. First off all I'll explain that I'm pretty sure I couldn't have a serious relationship with him, because we live far away from each other, I live in USA an he lives in Spain. We meet in my work, we had a meeting with several important consulters over the world, and he was one of them. When we meet we inmediatly created a special bond, we would be always together. At that time I was passing by a complicated relationship, and wasn't much interested romantically in him (even if he is gorgeous,intelligent and a true gentlemen). At that time he would flirt with me, told me how pretty I was, how he would like to marry someone like me (bla, bla...) I took it as a joke, and we became friends. He left to his country, we kept our comunication for some months... Last week I received a mail from him telling me he was in town, to meet him in a meeting he had, when I saw him I figured out that I like him. He always makes me smile, he plays with me (even when work people are near)... Hes staying for 2 weeks, and told me we definetly have to see each other, more then once before he leaves. What should I do? I have already flirted with him, that's how we basically speack to each other, flirting each once an a while.
He seems interested in you and if you want to enjoy a further flirtation with him that would be simple to do. Or perhaps you want to go farther than a simple flirtation. So long as you are not in an exclusive relationship you have a clear road ahead for you.
If you want a more committed relationship you will need to make a significant change. Either he has to move here or you move there. But it is probably too early to be thinking of this. Let matters develop as they will and you will figure this out within six months.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com