Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Okay this is pretty straightforward.
(I'm 15 btw) There's this girl Kim. I have strong feelings for her. I've liked her for around 9, 10 months now. 2 months ago I told her I loved her. We've always had a close friendship, but it's never gone beyond that.
Now, i'm pretty sure she likes me. I THINK her friend told me that Kim likes me.. but it was sorta confusing and i'm not totally sure. But I don't really care now, if i've learned anything in the last 2 years, it's to not hesitate when you have an opportunity.
On Tuesday, i'm hanging out with Kim and another girl. The girl knows I like Kim, so if I give her a hint or something she'd know to leave us for a few minutes. I'm planning on asking her out sometime then...
There's only two real things i'm worried about:
1) I have no idea what to say to her when I ask her out, since i've never done it before..
2) Assuming she says yes.. How often do couples usually go out together? :s
Say "I guess you know I have feelings for you.... would you like to go out with me?"
If she says yes, then call/text every day, hang out as often as you can and go out on a date once a week.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com