flirting or playing?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
im sorry i clicked the wrong button and my question got summited the first time with out finshing1 so post this one!
there's this person at my church i really like, we're pretty good friends and even more so lately. I'm not really sure if he likes me or not.We sometimes take our awkward spells were we don't talk to each other for awhile.Our first awkward appell happened when i gave him a note asking iif he liked me becuase some people told me he might. and he never wrote back! WHY? isn't the piontof a note is two write back? anyway after that spell things wnet back to normal for awhile, but then he just started ignoring me for awhile. lkke when i would hold the dor andchurch he would walk right pass with out even looking at me!But now all of a sudden he's paying attention to me now more so then we use to do. sometimes noew hust for no reasonhe'll teasingly slap or pok eme stomache. Once when he did that someone said to him,"i just love how you to flirt with each other." he smiled and said hey nad put up his fists pretending to start a fight (he was just playing on the fighting part thta i cold tell) everyone always teases us a bout being bf and gf' . use to when they would tease us or try and get us togetherhe would just say no,just leave this alone. But now he says "yeah,okay ,sure" something like that and i can't tel if he's being sacastic or not. is he being sacastic? do you think he's flirting with me? if so how to i tell?
o yeah he teases me ALL the time!1 and he sitsenough in front of me that i can see him but i can't see he's eyees and he always turns around and stares and looks around it seems as if he's startring at me but i really can't tell.
He's flirting with you for sure and that is a sign that he likes you.
He may be a little shy which would explain why he ignores you sometimes. Be pleasant to him and always smile and say hi. Smiling is very important.
Be happy you have a church where you can share your feelings. It is a great place to get to know each other and do activities together. Don't waste this opportunity.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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He is flirting