Should I tell him?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my bf have been together for about 4 months and we care about eachother alot. Like a week ago I was upset with him because he wasn't calling me all the time like he used to and he wasn't making an effort to come see me and I missed him. Although we stayed in touch it just didn't seem as if I was on his mind. So I told him that I didn't want to be in a steady relationship because I felt like I was getting played. Even though I never said "its over" that was my way of dumping him. He didnt seem mad and we still talked but I was under the impression that he knew we had broke up. After that me and one of my exes slept together. I have NO feelings for my ex but it still happened.The next day my bf called me and asked me who I was "cheating" on him with. He said he had a dream that I "cheated" on him. I thoght he was joking at first but it was clear that he wasn't. At that point I was scared to tell him what happened and I didnt know how to say that wasnt together in a nice way so I just denied it. I was gonna try to break up w/ him again but sleeping w/ my ex made me realize how much wanna be with my bf. IDK how he would react to my explantion bcuz he real overpotective. I wanna tell him so bad but I wanna be with him and what if he break up with me? Should I tell him the truth?
To have a good relationship, you must be truthful with your love.
Tell him you thought you had broken up, had sex with your ex, realized how much you loved your bf, and wanted to continue your relationship.
His reaction will tell you what you want to know. If he dumps you over this then it was not meant to be.
Best of luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com