I dont know what to do........
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 27 year old, and he is much older than me and he is married. I meet him at work, and in the begining i didnt imagine that i will fall in love. We are together for 8 years and we see each other every day. I live alone and he is cameing everyday.As the time go by, he started or he is saying is started to fell that we must brek up our relasionship. He said that i must find boyfrind to get marryied and to have children. I know that is true , but i cant help mmy self, by the way he is just talking about it and dont make any step, he coming again as before, we ARE TOGETHER AND EVERYTHIG IS NICE. bUT I AM NOT REDAY TO LEAVE HIM , BEACOUSE I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH, I DONT FEEL READY TO FALL IN LOVE IN SOMEONE ELSE AND I DONT LIKE ANYBODY EXCEPT HIM.I have never push fim to leave his wife and i will never do that i just want to enjoy while is leasting, even i forgive him once when he was unfaithful.When i want to hug him he is starting to speak about breaking up beacouse is wrong and we shouldnt do that , and not to fall in love more deeply. Please help me or encourge me i am in pain and confudsed and i dont know what to do to stop loving him and start over again.
After being together 8 years, it will be very difficult to find someone new. The pain of breaking up will be very bad.
You must decide what is best for you in the long run. Are you willing to be an old woman with no husband and no children? That is waiting for you if you do not break up with him soon.
Is it possible that he wants to break up because he is tired of you or his circumstances have change? It would be better to break up now while you are still young.
There are no good answers for your situation. You must choose between unpleasant choices and make the best of your choice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com