Stupid little fights
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I need help on how to deal with figthing over stupid stuff it seems like i always do stuff to make her mad. i always feel bad because i make her mad so much i dont want to break up but i am afraid that if i keep making her made she will get sick of it and break up with me. i get upset when she is with her friends and wish she was with me instead and it makes her mad.
The way to deal with this is by discussing it and compromising.
Ask her to think of the three things that she would like you to change. Then gently talk about them and see if you can figure out ways of improving the situation. Try avoid any suggestions that include the words "always" "never."
If you agree to something, say that you will do the best you can to follow her changes but that you are only human and might make a mistake.
Then whenever you can do it, take your turn to tell her the three things you
would like her to change. Once again, avoid words like "always" and "never."
Since you both care about each other, this should work well. Show her this note if you want to.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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