Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am a 24-year-old female who is an extremely weird situation. I have known one boy for two months since I started working in a fast food place. He is a very cute boy, the only problem is that he is way skinnier than me and looks way younger for his 25 years. So, we would be a little weird couple if we are together. Based on that physical disrepancy all my colleagues in the store kept teasing me about the possibility of him becoming my boyfriend. Being myself full of prejudice I also kept talking stupid stuff about that. I even made up a couple of nicknames for him, such as: "child", "skinny", etc. I kept teasing him that he could become my boyfriend if he gains weight and so on and so forth. I simply did not realize that during all that time he has had feelings for me until recently I saw him quite close with another girl. After a stormy argument he confessed that he has always loved me, but my sarcastic remarks about his weight, etc. have made him think that I do not take him seriously. The bottom line of all that is that realized my own real feelings after I lost him (he told me that he has started dating the other girl I saw him with). Still, that is not the greatest problem. We ended up in bed a couple of times (we did not have real sex, we just hugged and talked for hours and hours) and he still insists on me spending some time with him like that, because he feels comfortable with me. However, the last time we were lying next to each other he told me not to turn my face towards him, because we will kiss, then we will hug and... we will not be friends anymore. He also told me that is his country it is normal for friends to lie next to each other hugging like us.
I am really confused about all that. I really like him and I do not know what to do. Another issue is that the fast food place closes at the end of the summer and each one of us (including his girlfriend) is going to his/her home country. So, I wonder if I should keep going on like that for a little more than a month more or should I end this story right now?
Your friend has a girlfriend so he should be off-limits to you. Perhaps she is the reason he is so slow in bed.
Why would you want to continue seeing him? It's only a month until you are all separated. What do you have to gain in a month?
I think your idea of ending this story right now is the correct one.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com