What should I do stay or go?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been married for a year. I am 19 years old, got married because of family pressure and I just wanted to stay with him, also because his family are missionaries. He told me 2 months ago that he cheated on me once when we were dating. I remember that when his family was not letting us hang out, he was hanging out with other girls. I feel foolish for not realizing how he really was. He kissed my sister, one of my friends. He said that I'll regret if I leave him, because later he will have everything. He is trying to be ok with me but like he doesn't have a phone right now, I don't think it will last long. I cheated on him once because I felt alone and it is no excuse but it happened.
You two should have a long gentle conversation and see if you can work out your problems.
If that doesn't work, see a professional counselor.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com