from ex to best friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok a year ago i met my ex i got her number and we talked for months before going out when we did it wasnt long cuz we both live in different towns. when we broke up i decided to give her space and i did then on christmas i decided to call her to wish her a merry christams andthen from that point on we talked every day for months we knew each other better then anyone ever would. one night i asked her why do you think we talk so much she said because we were falling inlove with each other. so on valentines day i skipped my championship game to see her i gave her roses. then in march she said that she didnt want to ruin the friendship since i was her bestfriend and she is mine. but every time we talk we fall in love agian. n so on the fourht of july i decided to take a chace n ask her out she said no but i knew the answer and the reason. so my question is, is there anyway to let her see that i love her and want to get back together to be more then friends to be a couple agian?
She already knows you love her so there is not much more you need to do.
Your next step is to convince her that having a couple relationship will not harm your friendship relationship. If you haven't done so already, ask her to go out as a friend for dinner, bowling, or a walk in the park. Do couple things but as friends.
Make sure that you are on hugging and cheek kissing terms and that she feels comfortable with touching and flirting. It is likely that she will be drawn to you if you do these things.
When you feel it is a good time, tell her how you feel again and ask her to consider being a couple.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com