y do i keep hesitating?Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i met this girl online n we became pretty good friends we met n hang a couple of times n is fun, but i had a crush on her 4 long now, but wasnt sure in tellin her. wanted 2 but everytime i decided 2, sumthng happens tht prevents. n this time, she likes another guy, but i dont think hes good 4 her. when he found out, he try 2 get his friend 2 go out w/ her, the 2nd time he ask 4 a 2nd chance, n they were gonna tlk n he didnt even say hi, he said she bttr off w/ another, n 3rd time they tlk, n she tells tht they r supposedely together, but it doesnt feel like it....i wanna tell her how much i care 4 her n like her, but w/ her situation w/ the othr guy, im not sure how, when, or if i shoiuld even tell her my feelins 4 her........
To lessen your risk, tell her that you are "developing feelings" for her and if she ever breaks up with her boyfriend you would want to see if you could make a good couple.
Make sure she breaks up with him before starting to date her because it might be considered cheating if she is really going out with him.
Good luck! George
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